Jay, it was a very moving and thought provoking picture you put on twitter yesterday. Without digging too deep into your personal affairs, just wanted to say I hope your Mother is comfortable and at peace, whatever that might mean in her situation.
Thanks for everything you do and the joy you bring us every day. You've made us feel like family so I (I think I can safely say We) want you to know we're in your corner.
From the listener's standpoint... take as long as you need. You couldn't be more right when you say FAMILY FIRST.
Take care brother.